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We need to spread kindness and love for people. Thinking that
        evil is inherent in life should be dismissed. Misconceived religions

        serve  to  divide  the  whole.  There  are  parts  of  the  world  where
        there is hatred among those who are not equal. All these flaws

        should be analyzed in order to find a way to build trust among

        people.

        People  started  to  unite  when  they  realized  they  were  stronger

        together. The tribal community was created by several families.
        Tribal  communities  were  polygamous  and  loyalty  towards  the

        tribe  was  strongly  expressed.  Eventually,  tribal  communities

        expanded  and  grew  into  settlements  and  larger  territories,
        creating  conditions  for  states.  In  such  expanded  communities

        with many people there was a need for marital communities that

        create  their  offspring.  One  of  the  many  reasons  for  creating  a
        family or marriage between a man and a woman was security or

        protection from other people. Nuptial love became the pillar that
        supported  marriage.  When  children  were  born,  love  was

        extended to the other members of the family. Love is the product
        of safety, habit, blood relationship, inherited or acquired property,

        tradition and other elements.

        People  have  different  attitude  towards  marriage  and  different

        expectations.  Some  get  married  for  existential  reasons,  some




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